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A Message from the Toronto Board of Rabbis Regarding Funerals and Passover

There are some moments in our lives in which we want nothing more than to be together with those we love, such as comforting those who are in mourning or celebrating around the Seder table. Yet physically being present is not always the most loving choice.

In this difficult time of the COVID-19 epidemic, the Toronto Board of Rabbis has issued two statements, one about funerals and the other about Passover. The statements are included below. Simply put: "virtual" connections can be profound when they are made with the deepest love and concern. Please do your best to protect your well-being and that of those you love.


A Letter to Our Community Regarding Covid 19 and Funerals

We write to you today with new guidelines for funeral and shiva observance to meet the urgency of the current health crisis due to the spread of COVID-19. These are extraordinary times and they do call for measures we would never contemplate under other circumstances.

We take very seriously our obligations to our loved ones and the desire to honour those who have died. Equally so, we take seriously our obligations to the living to protect and keep us all in good health as long as we can.

We therefore advise under the strongest possible terms the following approaches to the observance of funerals and mourning in our community:

  • All funerals should be private and by family invitation only.
  • Attendance should be limited to the innermost circle of loved ones only, ideally solely the primary mourners.
  • Funerals should be graveside only.
  • Anyone experiencing the following should not attend a funeral or public gathering
    • fever, cough, sore throat, or other flue-like symptoms
    • contact with someone with a confirmed case of COVID-19 or symptoms
    • return from outside the country within 2 weeks

Shivas should be private and those wishing to offer their condolences should do so by phone or other means of communication.

We wish circumstances were different. However, as we read in Kohelet, there is “a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.” Each embrace we refrain from now is potentially a life saved later. Let us embrace each other by other means in these days and weeks ahead, attending to each other by phone, letter, email, and virtual communications.

We pray for speedy healing to all those currently experiencing the virus. We ask the Holy Blessed One, ufros aleinu sukkat sholmeicha, spread over us the shelter of your peace as we continue to navigate this moment.

20 Adar 5780/March 16, 2020


Sat, September 26 2020 8 Tishrei 5781